Last Longer in Bed

Wednesday 22 August 2012

Can You Stop Premature Ejaculation?

Can You Stop Premature Ejaculation? Here's How You Can End the Embarrassment of Finishing Too Soon!

When it comes to making love, there are a lot of things that can go wrong. But nothing is worse for the guy who just can't seem to last the distance in bed. Well, if you're one of the men who finish too fast, too soon, you are not alone. Premature ejaculation is a condition that afflicts as many as 4 in 10 men. Well, the true figures are probably much higher because not many guys are willing to reveal their most intimate problem in the bedroom. In fact, when asked differently, that is, "who else wants to last longer in bed", the answer is closer to 75% of men!

So why is it that guys can't go the extra mile during lovemaking? There are a number of factors at play, but the most common ones got to do with your mental and physical trigger points. In other words, how well you control you levels of arousal and how you control your body during sex.

Now here's the key question: Is there a "magic cure" to your sexual performance woes? Truth is, there isn't. But here's the good news. If you're looking for some "quick fixes" you can use tonight to prevent yourself from ejaculating too soon, the 3 tricks below will come in handy for you.

Trick #1 - The "Position Multiplier"

Most guys go for the missionary position. But did you know this is the fastest and surest way for a guy to climax? Indeed! If you want to last longer, try the side-on position or the woman-on-top where your girl has more control over the thrusts and momentum. These 2 positions present less friction during intercourse and less stimulation to you as a result. That said, you have to experiment and try out various positions and find a few that will help you hold out longer.

Trick #2 - The "Great Barrier" Tactic

Use a thicker condom. This will help dampen your sensations and keep your arousal levels in check. Well, this is almost too simple but honestly not many guys pay heed to this useful trick. If you like, there are condoms with special ingredients on sale that are helpful in preventing early ejaculation.

Trick #3 - Get Yourself "Unloaded"

Indulge in some self-gratification before your lovemaking session. By releasing your sexual tensions first, your body will not be overly responsive and "on the edge" during the actual deed. Try it. It works almost like magic.

Monday 20 August 2012

Prolong Ejaculation During Sex

Prolong Ejaculation During Sex - 3 Proven Techniques to Last Longer & Enjoy Sex to Its Fullest!

Do you find yourself not being able to last long enough to sexually satisfy your woman? I know, lasting no more than 2 minutes flat during sex can be an embarrassing experience. If it is a one-night stand, you could probably hide your shame without seeing the same girl again. But if it is a lifelong partner, well, your relationship could take a tumble (as it has for many men). So how do you turn that passion into lovemaking that lasts all night? Keep reading as we take an insightful look!

But first: do know that you are not the only one suffering from the embarrassment of early ejaculation? There are more guys than you probably imagine who cannot last long enough (and this is backed up by real statistics). Okay, let's see if these tips will come in handy for you...

#1 - Be a slow-burner

Start your lovemaking on a slow, even keel. Don't let your emotions and passions boil over in a few seconds. How? Well, simple. Lavish your loving attention on her body first. Women take far longer to get aroused than guys, so give her erogenous hot spots some stimulation to get things going. Her neck, lower back, wrists, arms and inner thighs are great places to start focusing your attention. Don't zoom into her breasts or clitoris right away as your own arousal may soar through the roof! Bring her to a boil, slowly but surely and you will significantly reduce the time she gets to an orgasm once you begin intercourse.

#2 - Manage your strokes and thrusting

Direct thrusting is one of the surest ways to cause you to climax too quickly due to the intense friction and stimulation on your penis head. Indulge in some circular penetrative motions so that the rest of your manhood gets stimulated instead. And there is no rule to say that you have to keep the penetration going. As soon as you feel you are reaching a peak, you should stop the penetration altogether and focus your attention on pleasuring her using your hands and fingers.

#3 - Breathe your way to superior control

Don't let your passions control your breathing patterns. You will blow over before you even know it. Instead, practice deep breathing to keep your arousal level at bay. Here's the trick: as you penetrate into her, FOCUS on exhaling your breath; when you withdraw, try to inhale. By focusing on your breathing patterns, you will calm your nerves and stay relaxed - the very key to lasting longer in bed.

Saturday 18 August 2012



How to last longer through arousal control. Ejaculation on Command

How to Fix PE for GOOD!!

How to Fix Premature Ejaculation For Good - 3 Easy Tips to Supercharge Your Sex Life From Tonight!

Who else wants to know how to fix his premature ejaculation condition once and for all? If you're like most guys reading this, you probably want to know how you can last long enough to satisfy your woman in bed, don't you? If so, you need to read this article now. There is no need to feel let down by your lack of endurance in bed. All you need to do is to understand why you're not lasting long enough and what you can do about it.

Main causes of premature ejaculation (and what you can do about them)

There are certainly a good number of causes, but here are the more common ones:

#1 - Quick masturbation: Well, are you surprised? You shouldn't be. You see, guys are "wired" to ejaculate fast during masturbation. After all, it is our pleasure to want instant gratification. So it is very common for guys to climax in under a minute or two during masturbation. And when it comes to sex, our bodies are already conditioned to climax quickly.

So what is the solution? Well, easy! Take more time during masturbation. Don't rush through it. When you feel you are about to climax, stop the routine and resume it when you feel you've tapered off a bit. This will consciously train you to last longer.

#2 - Performance anxiety: Let's face it, if you think you can't perform in bed, chances are, you won't perform. And you're likely to ejaculate too soon. It's a vicious cycle; the more stressed out and anxious you are, the more unlikely you're able to control your orgasm.

So how can you get out of this rut? Simple. Practice some stress-relieving techniques at home. Meditation, yoga and deep breathing will help to a great extent. And while many guys overlook this, regular exercise is an excellent stress-reliever and will enhance your bed performance too!

#3 - Lacking knowledge of how your body works: Quite simply, most guys don't know how their bodies respond during sex and the triggers that cause them to ejaculate prematurely.

The solution to this? Understand your mental ejaculation triggers and use natural conditioning to enhance your mental threshold for stimulation. The great thing is that most guys already have this innate ability to control their ejaculation. Once you learn the natural conditioning techniques and put them into practice, you can easily curb or delay the ejaculation triggers and significantly increase your stamina in bed - for good!

Friday 17 August 2012

Last like a Stallion in Bed

Premature Ejaculation Cures - Here's How You Last Like a Stallion in Bed (Yes, Even Outlast Her!)

Imagine you could last as long as your woman on bed. Not just that, you can always outlast her every time you have sex! That seems to be a far-fetched dream of many guys who can't seem to hold their ejaculation for more than 2 minutes! Truth be told, as many as 4 in 10 men are facing the embarrassment of not lasting that amount of time. If this sounds like you, you'd be glad to know you are not the only one. So how can you last longer in the sack, hold of your ejaculation and give her the pleasure (and orgasm) of her life? Well, I've 3 tips for you that you will find useful to become a "marathon" man instead of a "minute guy"! Keen to learn more? I'm sure you do. Read on!

#1 - Use extra lube!

Well, contrary to common perception, extra lubrication can slow down your ejaculation. Why? This is because it will cause less friction between your penis and her vagina, thus reducing your pleasurable sensations and your sexual sensitivity. So put on that tube of lubricating gel nearby for that quick use!

#2 - Put on some protection!

Well, this is (almost) a no-brainer. Not only does using a condom make sex safer, it also helps to reduce sensation during sex - certainly a useful way to last longer in bed. For even better results, you can buy one of those specialty condoms or "climax control" types that will surely give you a boost in stamina in bed where you need it most!

#3 - Get her to climax faster!

Well, the true definition of premature ejaculation is that a guy doesn't last long enough for his lady to come to an orgasm. So a great way to fix that, without prolonging your own orgasm, is to make her climax sooner. How? Simple! Focus more on foreplay. Most guys overlooked this very important aspect of lovemaking, and wonder why they come off sooner than their partners! Look, by taking your time to focus exclusively on pleasuring her during foreplay, you will build up her anticipation much faster, and deliver an orgasm to her sooner than you would probably imagine!

That said, the best way to permanently overcome your premature ejaculation is to understand your physical and mental ejaculation triggers and progressively raising your stimulation threshold through natural forms of training and conditioning. Once you understand your mental trigger points and have full control over these, you can last as long as you want, and even achieve multiple orgasms in a single sitting!

Thursday 16 August 2012

Tips to Controlling Premature Ejaculation

Controlling Premature Ejaculation - 2 Solutions to Last Longer in Bed and Enjoy Amazing Sex!

Be honest... are you lasting long enough in bed to make your woman think you are a sex god? If you are anything like the vast majority of men reading this, your answer would probably be a sad "NO". The simple truth is that premature ejaculation (PE) is a very common sexual ailment that affects more than 40% of men. Quite simply, if you can't last more than 2 minutes, or if you don't last long enough to keep your woman satisfied (or bring her to an orgasm), you fall into this group of men who fall short in bed. But this is not a problem at all, unless you choose to let it become a stumbling block in your sex life. There are some things you can do to beat PE at its own game, starting from tonight. Read this now and learn some of the "cures" available.

PE Cure #1 - Your "quick fix" ejaculation cures

There are plenty of these on the market - pills, sprays, desensitizing creams and a whole gamut of artificial solutions. Do these really work? Well, as a temporary solution, they do work to a certain extent. For example, if you have a hot date coming up and you want to impress her, getting that spray or cream on your manhood before the show begins can help you last longer in bed. But you should not depend on these quick fixes if you want a permanent solution to your premature ejaculation. These simply don't address the underlying causes of you not lasting long enough.

PE Cure #2 - Re-condition your mind and body

Listen, if you want to permanently fix your premature ejaculation condition, you have to address the full set of physical and mental causes. Every man is different, but most of the common causes of PE can be found in (1) our masturbation habits from young, (2) not being familiar with our psychological trigger points for ejaculation, and (3) over-sensitivity of our ejaculation reflexes. All these can be addressed through proper conditioning and training that involves a proper understanding of the physical and mental factors of PE; appropriate exercising techniques; and a comprehensive and holistic application of the tips and strategies to help you overcome PE for good.


Will this happen overnight? No it won't. It can take a week for results to show (although some guys see results as quickly as 2 to 3 days), but the thing is, if you put in the effort to work on it, you WILL surely last longer than you did before. And the more you work on it, the more "mileage" you will go in bed - for good!


Wednesday 15 August 2012

Last Longer In Bed: How to Last Longer in Bed

Last Longer In Bed: How to Last Longer in Bed: Not Lasting Long Enough During Sex? Learn the Straight Scoop on Fixing Premature Ejaculation Here!

STOP PREMATURE EJACULATION (3 Highly effective ways, No pills or any temporary medication)

Stop Premature Ejaculation Now! These 3 Surefire Tactics Will Make You Last Longer in Bed!

There is no need to feel embarrassed or ashamed about it. There are far more men out there who ejaculate too early during sex, so you are certainly not alone. And there is certainly a lot you can do to stop your premature ejaculation problems, fulfill the woman in your life and totally transform your sex life.

If you look around, you'd probably notice a ton of pills, portions and sprays that claim to work wonders and promise that you will go on for hours during sex. Truth is, these solutions are only temporary quick fixes that don't nip the problem in the bud. Worst still, many of these products are known to cause skin irritation or allergic reactions, or even reduce your sensitivity to arousal. Well, doesn't that defeat the pleasures of sex? You bet!

Well, read on for 3 useful tips that work far better than those fad solutions you see in the marketplace. Once you master these, you will last much longer and enjoy sex much better. Read on...

#1 - Switch up your routines:

The key is in knowing when to stop. I know, it's easy to get carried away and let the sensations rule over you. But if you want to pleasure her as much and don't disappoint her, stop before you reach the Point of No Return (PNR). Once you reach the PNR, there's no stopping you from ejaculation, even if her grandma walks into the room! So before you reach that point, remove your penis and switch to stimulating her with your fingers or perform oral sex on her.

#2 - Control your breathing:

Take in deep breaths. By concentrating on your own breathing, you are drawing yourself away from the pleasurable sensations during intercourse. With enough practice, this will "hold you back" much longer.

#3 - Focus on her instead:

Here's the truth. The reason why you want to prolong your orgasm is so that you can fulfill her sexually, don't you? So if you're climaxing too early, it helps a great deal if you'll just focus on pleasuring her FIRST. Stimulate her with some extensive foreplay. Tease her "hot spots" with your hands and fingers. Even oral sex alone can bring her to an orgasm before you even start the actual deed!

There's no need to feel sorry for yourself just because you're not lasting long enough for her. With these simple tips on hand, you can start becoming the man you always wanted to be, full of fun and confidence... and totally rock her world in bed!

Tuesday 14 August 2012

Ejaculation On Command


Do You Ejaculate Too Fast During Sex? Stop! 3 Things About Premature Ejaculation You Should Know!

Ejaculation On Your Own Command

Having problem to last longer in bed?
Am I ejaculating too fast during sex? Do women find my lack of sexual stamina laughable? Am I really pleasing my girl in bed each time I have sex? Do these sound like questions you have been asking yourself lately? If they do, don't be ashamed about it. In fact, as many as forty percent of men have some issues about not lasting long enough in bed. So you are definitely not alone in finishing too soon during sex. Some guys have it so bad that they ejaculate the moment they penetrate their partners.
If you are like many men who wish they could last longer, you probably have many questions about premature ejaculation. If so, this article is just for you. Keep reading as we find answers to three common questions asked.

How long does the average man last in bed?                           
Five to ten minutes is a common yardstick, although most men are closer to five minutes. Considering the fact that most women take an average of fifteen minutes to reach an orgasm through vaginal penetration, it only means that the vast majority of women are unable to experience the full pleasures of lovemaking.

Is lasting longer always better?
Most men think so. BUT here's the simple truth. You only need to last as long as it takes for her to get an orgasm. And it does not even need to be through vaginal penetration! You see, women are capable of reaching a climax through a variety of means. Foreplay, oral sex, and yes - even, mental seduction is known to cause an orgasm in a woman! As long as she receives her orgasm, the amount of time you spend penetrating her does not really matter. Hint: Take your time during foreplay and bring her to a climax before intercourse. Even if you do not last 30 seconds into intercourse, you are way better than 99% of all men!

I want to impress a hot date in bed at short notice... what can I do?
There is a quick and easy way to sort this out. Masturbate about an hour or two before you are due to have sex. By "clearing up your pipes" and releasing your sexual tension, your penis will become less responsive and it takes longer to stimulate it to the same levels of excitement. This stop-gap measure can easily add crucial minutes when you have sex. And she wouldn't know a thing about it, either!
  
Learn how you can develop superior sexual endurance and enjoy transformative sex by visiting: Ejaculation By Command.

Monday 13 August 2012

How to Last Longer in Bed


Not Lasting Long Enough During Sex? Learn the Straight Scoop on Fixing Premature Ejaculation Here!
By Lloyd Lester, Creator, EjaculationByCommand.com
You are bound to have some concerns when you are trying to last long enough during sex. Whether it is about the right technique to manage your ejaculation or the right time to do it, the questions never end. Keep reading and let's discuss and address a few issues here:




Question #1 - Exercise Or Medication: Which Is Better For Improving Ejaculatory Control?
Let's clear up the basics first. There is NO medication that can help you last longer in bed if your pelvic muscles are weak to begin with. You see, medications and drugs are available but these can only increase and regulate the flow of blood to your genitals. If your muscles are weak, you will only maintain the erection for a short time even with the help of medication. So yes, exercise is one of the best ways that can help you in the long run. In fact, exercise is the essential building block that can make other techniques (including medication) succeed!

Question #2 - Are The Exercises Tough And Time-Consuming?
Yes, exercises such as kegel DO take some time and consistent effort. But you will be amazed at how simple they are to learn and practice on your own. In fact, you don't even have to invest a separate time for it. Most of these exercises are innocuous enough that you can do them at work, while travelling or even when watching television. What about the amount of practice you need each day? How about 5 to 10 minutes? Honestly, that is a drop in the ocean considering the immense benefits you are going to get out of it.

Question #3 - Can I "Will" Myself Not To Have Premature Ejaculation?
Honestly, I wish I could when I first began on the path towards better sexual stamina! But here's the thing - premature ejaculation is mostly a learned habit acquired from young (such as your masturbatory habits that focused on quick, instant gratification). Thus it will take some time to "unlearn" and start having a longer and better sexual experience. This takes effort and practice. Premature ejaculation is NOT something you can control just by thinking about it - even if you have loads of willpower!

Question #4 - Can I Ever Please My Partner If I Have PE?
Reality check: It is NEVER about how long you last in bed. Some men can last up to 30 minutes in bed, without ever fulfilling their women. But there are guys who are 'quick shooters" (who last no more than 2 minutes of sex), yet their female partners are completely bowled over in bed! How it that possible? Simple!
Those guys make sure that their women are properly aroused and stimulated before they begin sexual intercourse. In fact, most of these women have already gotten an orgasm (or two) through foreplay before any penetrative act. That is truly the "gold standard" of lasting long enough. Food for thought?

About the author:
Lloyd Lester is the creator of "Ejaculation By Command", a complete, step-by-step blueprint to help men permanently end premature ejaculation and last longer in bed. Learn how you can develop superior sexual endurance and enjoy transformative sex by visiting: Ejaculation By Command.
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